Getting Good Vibes from your New Vibrator
Hooray! You have chosen a shiny new vibrator. You will take it out of the package and marvel at it's multiple speed settings and rhythm options. Sometimes you even get to ooh and ahh over pearls, clitoris and/or anal stimulation, and even directional movement! What now, though?
Vibrators come with a lot of myths about them. Let's first tackle those.
Vibrators do not decrease sensitivity, in women or men. Vibrating toys provide the same level of stimulation that a partner would, just by a different mechanism. If anything, vibrating toys can add spice to your relationship with your partner.
Guaranteed orgasms with the first (and sometimes second and third,) use. The first few times you explore your body with your vibrator, the alien sensation may not bring you to orgasm immediately. It may take adjusting settings, getting used to the feel, and finding the right erogenous zones that work for you with your vibrator. (Tip: The places a vibrator feels best may not be the same places manual self pleasure and pleasure with a partner are!
Knowing your vibrator is the key to finding the best spots on your body to use it. Read the directions, understand the settings, know the options, and familiarize yourself with it turned on before you actually use it. Feel it thoroughly with your hand wrapped around it through various settings so you can literally get a feel for what you're about to use on other parts of your body.
When you do decide to use it for pleasure, remember that there are many different erogenous zones on your body. Play around with settings, speeds, and other options. Explore with it in places you may have never thought you would find pleasure from with a vibrator, such as nipples and the insides of your thighs. Effectively give yourself time to build up to penetration or use directly on a sexual zone. Have self-foreplay, if you will.
Most importantly, relax. Enjoy your time with your body and your vibrator. Its sole purpose is pleasure, and that is pleasure you deserve. For any more questions or help deciding what vibrator is right for you, please contact us! We would love to help you love yourself.
